tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post8286697286481738412..comments2024-01-30T01:52:44.135-07:00Comments on The Anti-Austen: Confusion begets confusion. The Anti-Austenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11970646614276309244noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post-48297951114951272402013-11-24T10:21:10.204-07:002013-11-24T10:21:10.204-07:00I can't remember if Mary is aware of her 19-ye...I can't remember if Mary is aware of her 19-year-old competition, but if she is, she may have noticed the Bearded Hobbit with the nuisance earlier. What the girl needs is leverage -- Beardo is, by some miracle, juggling two girls, while Mary only has Beardo on the mind. She needs another male to distract her. Is there an awkward but nice dude that you can introduce to her to?Arielle Sloanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05910559511723147907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post-51883371735493988272013-11-23T02:43:21.504-07:002013-11-23T02:43:21.504-07:00Let things pan out normally. Maybe he will change ...Let things pan out normally. Maybe he will change his mind and realize he likes Mary. Maybe he doesn't even life the nineteen year old and she asked him to carry her violin. Maybe he doesn't know who he likes yet and is deciding. Maybe Mary has already gotten signals that he does/does not like him. WE DON'T KNOW. If you tell her, Best case scenario: she immediately believes you and shuts down communication and spares herself some undue possible embarrassment. Worst case scenario if you tell: she decides to stop liking him, but he changes his mind, and the love is lost. I would say that it is not solid enough evidence to bring it to her attention. She's smart, she'll figure it out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com