tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post6405910917172232136..comments2024-01-30T01:52:44.135-07:00Comments on The Anti-Austen: Half agony, half hope. The Anti-Austenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11970646614276309244noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post-65237336372665104412017-05-09T11:25:22.186-06:002017-05-09T11:25:22.186-06:00If you would like an alternative to randomly appro...If you would like an alternative to randomly approaching girls and trying to find out the right thing to say...<br /><br />If you'd prefer to have women chase YOU, instead of spending your nights prowling around in filthy bars and night clubs...<br /><br />Then I urge you to view this eye-opening video to find out a weird secret that has the potential to get you your personal harem of hot women just 24 hours from now: <br /><br /><b><a href="http://dating.syntaxlinks.com/r/FacebookSeductionSystem" rel="nofollow">FACEBOOK SEDUCTION SYSTEM</a></b>!!!Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07287821785570247118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8936537874847344814.post-417565967003553592012-10-14T18:34:31.170-06:002012-10-14T18:34:31.170-06:00I think that as long as you are completely honest ...I think that as long as you are completely honest with whoever it is you're dating, you have nothing to worry about. It was very good of you to come out and say that there was something bothering you, and perhaps something that you are having trouble letting go of. <br /><br />This happened to me recently, actually. I went on a blind date with a guy and it actually turned into something! We continued seeing each other more, and I really liked him, and could see myself dating him. <br /><br />However, there is a man who I have loved since I was 13, who is 21 and preparing to go on his mission a little later than normal. We are best friends. He was my first kiss. I spent so much time with him. As things looked like they were getting more serious with this new guy, I knew I needed to talk to my best friend and once and for all have him tell me "no, I don't want to date you. I have no feelings for you. You need to move on from this." <br /><br />However, this was not the response I got. I got a "I really like you. You're my best friend, and I'm attracted to you and I'm so glad that I can do anything around you and say anything to you without being judged. But, I can't date you, even though I want to.... I can't have anything else keeping me from going on a mission. I think you should date this guy if you like him." And we haven't spoken since.<br /><br />This was really confusing for me, and it caused me to take a step back with the new guy. I told him everything that had happened and how I needed time to figure things out and let go of some things from my past that were holding me back. Key words: I TOLD HIM. You've been honest with him, and that's all you can really do, my friend.<br /><br />He has allowed me time to sort things out and has been SO patient with me. We aren't steadily dating yet, but we're back on track. I think that it's true....you have to decide if this is what YOU want. This could very well shake you up as much as it's shaken him up. Additionally, if he is going to let this one thing screw up something that could be awesome, you can do better. You deserve someone who can be understanding of your feelings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com